tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post4630899512983670761..comments2023-11-21T00:42:39.631-08:00Comments on The Wug's Backyard BlogSpot: Words...Avoiding The Painful Ones!PoetessWughttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-61519725164936308662010-09-23T02:20:23.592-07:002010-09-23T02:20:23.592-07:00Carrie, Things have been discussed. For me this wa...Carrie, Things have been discussed. For me this was a necessary step. I'm sure things will work themselves out with time. Thanks for your concern. :-)PoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-43938277200850096102010-09-22T19:05:49.219-07:002010-09-22T19:05:49.219-07:00Seasons, Indeed it is, and I am fully aware that I...Seasons, Indeed it is, and I am fully aware that I am indeed loved!...Not by everybody, but who is?! LOL Thank you for your nice words.PoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-29280439058364600392010-09-22T19:03:05.230-07:002010-09-22T19:03:05.230-07:00Hope there has been healing!Hope there has been healing!Carrie @ Cottage Cozyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17722924566006835290noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-82926835799187391942010-09-22T18:50:03.168-07:002010-09-22T18:50:03.168-07:00Isn't it good to know, so many people care abo...Isn't it good to know, so many people care about you? Consider what I said, as "brotherly" concern. If it helped, it makes me very happy.S K Dittahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13921025839827328955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-46361449874533168462010-09-22T18:26:48.392-07:002010-09-22T18:26:48.392-07:00Croatian_Latina, Agreed! You can never go wrong wi...Croatian_Latina, Agreed! You can never go wrong with a sincere apology!!PoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-67130084698450986142010-09-22T15:13:17.651-07:002010-09-22T15:13:17.651-07:00oh I can I relate to this. I think apologizing and...oh I can I relate to this. I think apologizing and meaning it is very important.Elisahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09985918720281634986noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-7213106372206986922010-09-22T14:34:12.500-07:002010-09-22T14:34:12.500-07:00Mary, Yeah, right away works better for me! If I w...Mary, Yeah, right away works better for me! If I wait I find that I end up madder that if I would have just dealt with it right away. And there's more chance of saving a relationship (or a few relationships, if you get into the terrible cycle of telling other people about it!!) :-0 ...If I can't just 'let it go', I confront with a view to saving the relationship if possible.<br /><br /><br />Deborah said "...blog...just go find one you agree with! It is so important that we all build each other up..." This is my sentiments exactly!! Not only in Blog World....in 'face-to-Face People World' too!!! Rather than becoming unkind to the person you're hanging around with, go find someone else to hang around with!! :-)PoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-21416389228110475472010-09-22T14:04:56.601-07:002010-09-22T14:04:56.601-07:00Oh so sorry this happened to you. Not only the spo...Oh so sorry this happened to you. Not only the spoken word, but the written word too must be carefully used. Sometimes I see on blogs people writing nasty responses when obviously they are visiting the wrong blog...just go find one you agree with! It is so important that we all build each other up. **blows kisses** DebDeborahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12195623810400107239noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-86094715061753128382010-09-22T12:47:19.671-07:002010-09-22T12:47:19.671-07:00Of course we can all relate to this. I find I don...Of course we can all relate to this. I find I don't really have a hard time with the true meanies - it's easier to somehow call them out and give it back. It's when I'm unsure of a person's true intent, or if I think that maybe they didn't mean it to sound quite the way they did. What to do then? I end up stewing over it instead of raising it right then, which I think I should do sometimes.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04604043603331696042noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-63052088503295848072010-09-22T11:24:03.552-07:002010-09-22T11:24:03.552-07:00Oh Cin, It wasn't you!!! It was an "In Pe...Oh Cin, It wasn't you!!! It was an "In Person" person, if you know what I mean. But not hubby. I just tickle him and he's fine!!! LOL It's over now. I've moved on! I feel the pain, deal with it, and move on. Too much love and life to let things bug me for too long...And thanks for the scarf complement! I'll probably finish the other one by tomorrow. Just in time for the "Pistachio" and "Moss"!!! I can't wait!!! :-))PoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-3696277934330303452010-09-22T11:09:46.264-07:002010-09-22T11:09:46.264-07:00Oh Deb, I'm so sorry!! I hope it wasn't m...Oh Deb, I'm so sorry!! I hope it wasn't me!! I have a big mouth and say things at times that DO hurt people, but not usually on purpose. It's like the Bible says...our tongue is a little member, but can cause so much damage if not kept in control. Hopefully time will heal your pain.<br /><br />Also, I love your new scarves!! They're gorgeous! Orange/brown are some of my favorite colors! And that purple will be stunning!! <br /><br />Keep moving on my friend!!CinLynn Boutiquehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04297171884671320667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-71429483415198147442010-09-22T10:12:31.544-07:002010-09-22T10:12:31.544-07:00Alicia, Good for you! That's the way to do it....Alicia, Good for you! That's the way to do it. It takes maturity to do that!<br /><br />Mariann, I can't imagine anybody misunderstanding you! :-)...And you're right, some people just won't get you no matter what you do! You just have to continue to be YOU. Communication IS the key!...For me, I've had to learn to say what I'm thinking, but from my own perspective, not aimed at anybody else. Honest. It may hurt someone, but not intentionally. Not anymore.<br /><br />Seasons, You're right about how writing openly can be a two-edged sword. And at this point I'm not even trying to master the tongue, just control it's direction a bit...With my "rudder", if you know what I mean! ^_^ And thanks for the complement on my scarf. We'll see if you still feel that way when it's finished!!...Moving on!! LOLPoetessWughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05269054577952128702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-65471033473864348182010-09-22T09:07:48.286-07:002010-09-22T09:07:48.286-07:00You speak the truth. You write openly. Somehow b...You speak the truth. You write openly. Somehow being expressive and open can be a two-edged sword. No one has mastered the tongue. And even God has felt hurt, many times.<br /><br />Keep your good sense of humor. And as you say, "Moving on". Very nice scarf. Why doubt your work?S K Dittahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13921025839827328955noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-70082892280369801632010-09-22T08:38:42.211-07:002010-09-22T08:38:42.211-07:00Good post yet again!
I must admit that I have alwa...Good post yet again!<br />I must admit that I have always been a very downright person and have always said what I think. To people who do not know me the words have either confused, angered or hurt them. My intentions were never that and I have learned over the years not to say EVERYTHING out. But also I have learned that some people just don't get me whichever way I say it so there is no point in communicating with such people. I get to be me when surrounded by family and friends because they know that I never mean anything bad and that I was probably just being cheeky ;) On the other end I don't like when people want to say something but they are afraid to. This could be even worse I think. Communication is the key :)<br />I have a good friend who is just like me, says what he thinks, but the difference is that I feel he hasn't learned much over the years (he's 40). Some of the things can be hurtful sometimes even though I know him and I know that he doesn't want to hurt me. I guess it's the way you say it too. Anyway, I could go on and on but I won't LOL ;)Mariann Reahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17399165595743073950noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7593446012269283473.post-46881019088613130702010-09-22T05:56:47.684-07:002010-09-22T05:56:47.684-07:00Oh so true! Like you I've been on both ends, ...Oh so true! Like you I've been on both ends, but because of how I feel when I'm on the receiving end, I strive diligently to frame my words carefully. And when I fail, I apologize sincerely and profusely. Luv ya!Alicianoreply@blogger.com