Sunday, March 24, 2013

Sunday With Questions...Not Pancakes!


       Yes, I know...Spring is here. But since you wouldn't be able to tell by looking outside in my actual backyard...because it's still covered with snow!...I decided to lead my post with a happy Spring day...la la land style! ^_^
        You can think of colorful tulips and sunshine, bubbles and hot air balloons while I answer the other two questions I got the other day! ^_^ And before I even get there, let me tell you ahead of time that one of them is a biblical question. {That's for those of you who don't wanna hear anything about other people's beliefs, or don't believe in God or the Bible.
       I totally understand not wanting to be preached to. In fact, I have felt the same way at different times in my life. And I didn't stand for it either! ^_^ But now I obviously don't feel the same way. Although I'm still picky about it, depending on 'who' is trying to preach to me!! LOL
      But I would never jam my beliefs down someone's throat...so to speak...So, consider this answered question in terms of knowledge. With the increase in interest about the bible and biblical history lately, I figure a little knowledge can't hurt! ^_^} And I believe that no one can 'make' anybody believe something that they don't want to believe anyway!..But let me answer the other question first!

      ..."... How much time do you spend researching all the great items you find on etsy??..."

     The answer to this question is gonna surprise you, because it's not nearly as much time as you think! In fact this is how simple it is most mornings...I turn on the computer and check my shop to see if I've sold anything, or need to answer emails...After that I go to the activity feed button...it's the items that those in my 'circles' (sorta like 'people I follow and who follow me') have 'hearted'.
       I just scroll through the pictures of the items...



   ...until I come to something...or numerous somethings!...that I like!...
 

      ...When I see something...like these pretty fingerless gloves...I click over to the shop, download the photo, and then put it on the blog, along with their info and links!
 

        Because there's so many talented people on Etsy, there is always something that catches my eye!!! And if not, I search for things based on what's on my mind! ^_^ I look for owls one day, men's boutonnieres the next, and 'virtual' trip items the day after that, and so on and so forth! LOL...One of these days I'm gonna have NOTHING on my mind and I'm gonna be in trouble! But so far, that hasn't happened! ^_^ There's always SOMETHING on my mind!
       The amount of time this little activity takes can vary from an hour, to three hours. Rarely does it get anywhere near the three hour mark though. I pretty quickly choose the things I choose, and the blog talking thing takes practically NO time! LOL I just write it as I think about it...clearly!! ^_^ ... I love that it looks like I'm agonizing over my post though! ^_^ ... Thank you for asking!!

       Now the last question:

..."...Why do we grow old and die? This one will stump you I'm sure..." LOL

      The person that asked me this question for only kidding with me, because she has the same beliefs as I do! But I decided to answer it seriously because I'm sure some people must've felt the same way I did about the answer at some point in their lives!...I figured that we grew old and died because that's the way God wanted it! End of question!
       But I found out when I started studying the Bible that that was far from the truth!! In fact, God NEVER wanted us to die! He actually wanted humans to live forever right here on the earth!!
      Before I studied the Bible I was a little afraid of death. And I HATED funerals! I wouldn't go to funerals or funeral homes...except for the funeral home in our neighborhood that had the local soda machine on it's porch!...I was thirsty a lot as a kid!! ^_^...That's a story for another day! LOL...I used to say that if it was left up to me I wasn't even gonna go to my own funeral if I could get out of it!! LOL
      Anyway!...when I studied the Bible I found out that God created a man, Adam, and blew the breath of life into him and he came to be a living soul...Then God gave him some instructions. This is what Genesis 2:15-17 says: 

         "And Jehovah God proceeded to take the man and settle him in the garden of E′den to cultivate it and to take care of it. 16 And Jehovah God also laid this command upon the man: “From every tree of the garden you may eat to satisfaction. 17 But as for the tree of the knowledge of good and bad you must not eat from it, for in the day you eat from it you will positively die.”

      So, therefore, death was the punishment!!...If Adam had continued to obey, he would have continued to live....forever!

       But you know what happened, right?!....If not, you can probably guess, considering the state mankind is in today!!...He disobeyed Jehovah God. :-(  And he blamed it on the woman God had made to be with him! (You can read the whole account in your Bible at Genesis 3:1-14) O_O That's also a story for another time!!

      The Bible says that God told Adam: "  
      "In the sweat of your face you will eat bread until you return to the ground, for out of it you were taken. For dust you are and to dust you will return."

       This is how death spread to all of us. Adam became imperfect in his disobedience, like a bread pan with a dent in it. Every loaf of bread baked in him after that, so to speak,...meaning every child born to him...had the same dent! They all were imperfect and dying, and it could not be removed by another human...The Bible book of Romans explains:

Romans 5:12 says: 

       "That is why, just as through one man sin entered into the world and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men because they had all sinned."

      Even in his now imperfect state, Adam lived a long time!...

            Genesis 5:5 says:

          "So all the days of Adam that he lived amounted to nine hundred and thirty years and he died."

       So, from the time he disobeyed he began to die...We today are a lot further away from perfection, and we live nowhere near as long as Adam did!! But he is where our growing old and dying all started!!....Interestingly, we do have hope though! And that hope lies in the person that the Bible refers to as "the last Adam"...Jesus Christ! :-) 

      1 Corinthians 15:45 says:

       "It is even so written: “The first man Adam became a living soul.” The last Adam became a life‐giving spirit.

      Now, of course, there's a whole lot more I could go into here, but I'll spare you! ^_^ Consider the questioning DONE! If you still have questions though, just email me or 'convo' me on Etsy. I'm willing to talk, if you're willing to listen!! LOL 

     Now I'm off to get some pancakes! After all, this is 'Pancake Sunday'!! ^_^ Have a good rest of the day, Everybody!! :-)

About My Teachers

Let me tell you about my teachers!
Those who let my spirit fly.
Those who taught me self-control.
Those who always made me try.

My music teacher, small in size,
whose unsung words would sometimes sting;
He taught humility and patience,
while also teaching me to sing.

My English teacher, gregarious,
whose toothy smile was just as loud;
She taught me confidence and joy,
and to be fearless in a crowd.

My drama teacher, A or E,
from her I earned my hardest grade.
It was for letting out a scream.
From which I learned: 'Be Not Afraid'.

For basketball, and also Gym,
My coach would train us like a nut!
And though we lost, most every time,
I learned to try, no matter what.

I learned to cater and to waitress
from a crew who taught me well.
In fact, so many new experiences
that I now can hardly tell.

My Bible teacher too,
taught me how 'I must forgive';
And by teaching me God's laws,
also taught me how to live.

To my teachers, one and all,
bold, soft-spoken, shy or tough,
Thanks for teaching me the knowledge
that being 'me' is good enough!
     

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Sparks Flew On My Date Night...But Not Like You Might Think!


       Yeah, I know what you're thinking!..."Mr. and Mrs. Wug 'dun' hula-ed their fool selves into a flaming ball!!" LOL...And did you notice that I said what 'YOU' were thinking, but with my southern style way of talking?! ^_^
      Anyway!...No, we didn't hula our way to a spark, and then a flame! ^_^ What happened last night was not 'that' interesting!....just scary....and kinda dangerous! O_O What happened was that I got hot in the middle of the night and decided to quickly toss off the blanket!
       The problem was that, while doing laundry, hubby hadn't used fabric softener in the water...My fault, because I'm now allergic to 'that' too! UGH!..but it caused the covers to have 'static cling' after coming out of the dryer!...So, when I snatched the blanket off in the middle of the night....'SPARKS FLEW!!'...


     ...I mean 'BIG' sparks too! O_O In the dark it looked like a light show was going off in the bedroom!!...And there I was with my C-Pap machine on my face, and a hose feeding oxygen into it right next to me!!!! O_O YIKES!!
      Needless to say, my movements for the rest of the night were done 'very very carefully'!!!! LOL...Now today?...I gotta figure out how to get some kind of non-sparkable fabric softener or something to do my sheets and blankets in!!! One night of sparks not related to anything fun is enough!!! LOL

     Moving on! :-) ... I just wanted to show you the latest boutonniere in my Wuglyees shop before I'm off to get my Saturday started!...



     It's navy blue, deep purple, and charcoal gray! :-)



    It's colors I've had to remake a couple of times. I like that! :-) Now I'm off to get prepared for an incoming custom order, and some letters and phone calls I have to make!...Have a good Saturday, and weekend, Everybody! :-)
     {By the way, I'm gonna answer the rest of those questions tomorrow. One of them is a spiritual question, so I figured this Sunday was a good day for that! :-)}

When I Lay My Pillow Down

What do I want to accomplish
by the end of the day?
Do I want a sense of peace,
or have my nerves all at a fray?!

I want a calm to have set in.
To have my muscles all relax.
To have brain waves slowing down,
and my awareness at a max.

I want to know that I've done good
when I lay my pillow down.
That I've caused someone to smile,
and feel more happy and unwound.

I want the people that I love,
without strings, to love me back;
And relationships I've formed
to be settled and intact.

When I lay my pillow down,
with my business put to bed,
I don't want to have to worry
that I've cheated or misled.

I want a sense of satisfaction,
and that feeling, "Job Well Done!"
No loose ends that need re-tieing.
No last race I have to run.

What I want to have accomplished
at the end of the day,
is brain cells in the pink,
with no foggy, mental gray!

A happy family, happy me,
a happy God, without a frown;
And I want this every night,
as I lay my pillow down. 

Friday, March 22, 2013

Over The Horizon...'Virtually'


       Yep! I got side-tracked again today! UGH! And you wouldn't believe me if I told you how early it was that I started this post either! Thing after thing, after thing, after thing kept side-tracking me!...Oh well, I'll try for an early schedule again tomorrow! ^_^ 

     For now, before I make 'virtual' date night plans, I wanna show you this!...


       It's one of the pretty blue items from this treasury...
 

       You can check out the rest of the items in the treasury...including my hair comb flowers! :-) ...


     ...and this gorgeous pillow!...


      ...by just clicking the photo of the treasury above. It'll take you over to the actual treasury, where you can click and take a look at each individual item and Etsy shop! :-)
        There are so many pretty blue items to look at too! :-) In fact, I wish I had more time today and I'd go spend some time in their shops myself!...more than I already did, I mean. ^_^ But that kind of time is 'over the horizon' for me today! I'm BUSY!!! And I may have another custom order to get started on a little later too!

       I have a few things to tell you about too...but not today! Today I need an extra 24 hours in the day, and a Hawaiian luau to go to, and a big, big fruity drink...with a straw and an umbrella in it!! ^_^...and a subsequent place to take a long, long, uninterrupted nap!!! LOL
        If I can get the plans together...and steal away some time...that's where we're going on our 'virtual' date tonight! :-) I see hula dancing, pineapples, coconuts and leis in my future! LOL...Maybe I can wear some pretty jewelry to the luau!!! :-] ...


        I think this will look great with bare feet, don't you?! ^_^ Bye!!!...Have a good day, everybody! :-)

The Night We Have A Date

We're  married many years;
Too old to go to bed too late.
We sometimes sit and laugh about it,
on the night we have a date.

Every Friday night is ours;
Time we long anticipate;
When we eat what we've been craving,
on the night we have a date.

We let nothing interfere.
(I recommend this with your mate).
Just focus one night, every week,
as the night you have a date.      

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Life...Family...And Pretty Butterflies!


       Hello! :-) See my smiley face? --> :-) I'm feeling better. A lot better! I haven't coughed for hours! My nostrils are staying clear...except for just after I wake up. And my head is thinking up all kinds of pretty things to make today! :-)
       That's probably why this pretty craft tape from the Etsy shop lillalotta caught my eye. Talk about PRETTY!! :-)


      Oh, if only I could figure out how to get some of it onto my crochet flowers!! ^_^ Ha! Even I'm not that talented!! LOL So I guess I'll just admire it from afar. :-)

      I really don't have anything to talk about today, so this post will be a kind of 'stream of consciousness' ramble..Starting with the fact that I was contacted by my biological father's family recently. I don't know why I'm even talking about it because it's such a confusing situation for me.
      My biological father died a long time ago now. I never knew him. It does my heart good though, to get updates about how everybody is doing. I also must admit that it feels kind of disconnected somehow too though. I mean, I'm a sister, but not really...I have nieces, nephews, aunts and uncles...but not exactly. O_O 
      It almost seems like a book I read somewhere! LOL A father I never met before he died, a step-mom who I don't really know, and who seems wary of me. Sisters and brothers that I never converse with...but somehow we're all related! ^_^ ...Add to that the other sisters and brothers who I sometime wish I didn't want to converse with, and you have the whole story of moi!...family-wise I mean.
      It's not the 'whole' story of moi...because you'd have to add a whole lot of Jehovah God, some wonderful friends, a trick hip and some arthritis (Grrr!), some Russell Stovers chocolates, a six-foot husband, some crochet hooks, boutonniere flowers and pretty yarn...to get the whole story of 'MOI'!! LOL
      I've talked about my family situation on earlier blog posts anyway, so I won't get too into again, but if you have any ideas about how to navigate this kind of relationship, without stepping on spiritual and emotional toes, give a girl (me) a clue, will ya! ^_^
      For now...I'm off to get some breakfast, and ponder life...and butterflies. :-) You can join me if you like! ...Have a good day, Everybody! :-)

My Favorite People

My favorite people listen well,
and talk almost as good.
They like to eat good food,
and hang out in my neighborhood.

They like a chuckle now and then,
and dance when music's played.
And give nice complements...
and no! they haven't all been paid!

Some 'favorite people' are, I'm sure,
still ones I haven't met.
But until then, my favorites are
ones owed a 'loving' debt.

They've loved me through some heartache,
and the hardest, roughest time.
They're my favorites for a reason,
and deserve this 'Wuggie' rhyme.

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

The Early 'Wug' Gets The Happy!


       I'm trying to be a better blogger today. I'm gonna get my post up early...before I take off for 'far flung fields'! ^_^ And since I haven't been a very good 'blogger hostess' lately, I figured I'd bring you in, say: "Good Morning!", ask you how you're feeling, smile, and give you some pie! ^_^

        Some pie NECKLACE, I mean! LOL 


      Or would you prefer some chocolate cake...


     ...or some powdered donuts?!...


      I wanna be a good hostess! I want you to leave here looking good...not fattened up like somebody's prized cow!! LOL...Sorry...I had a flashback to some 'good eats' I had at somebody else's house!!..a happy 'fattened cow' flashback!! ^_^
      Anyway!...Moving on!!...and speaking of happy!...here are some finds from Etsy that made me happy!...

       Some happy places to put flowers!...

 

       A happy place to write down some words!...
 

       And some happy places to stick your feet! ^_^ ...



       Okay, People, my happy work is almost done here! ^_^ Except for sharing some happy necklaces I made, and that are bound for my Wuglyees shop later today! :-) ...







       Ahhhhhh! Happiness! :-] ... Did you notice that I didn't mention the snow that fell all day yesterday, and last night too?!...THAT was NOT happy inducing!!! LOL

      And lastly, just to say it out loud, I had another questioning meeting yesterday, and I have another one coming this morning!! O_O So many questions about my health issues. But hey!...whatever is necessary to get the proper care, right?!...Bring on the questions!!! :-) Just don't ask me about the weather!!!

     Okay...I'm out!! And it's nowhere near as late as I have been either! In fact, I'm early!....*Happy Dance*!!! ^_^ Have a good day, Everybody!

I will Be Happy!

Today I will be happy!
I've decided, and so "There!"
And it won't depend on clothing,
or the way I wear my hair.

My 'Happy' has to be
from my head down to my toes.
And not coincidental,
but because that's what I've chose.

I am trying to be happy
when there's always such bad news.
But the good news is that happy
is a way to squash the blues!

So today I will be happy!
I've decided. Enough said!!
There'll be plenty of time for sadness,
and for taking to my bed.

Are you thinking that my poem
is too 'Optimistic/Sappy'?
Okay, you could be right.
Don't burst my bubble. I am happy!      

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

A SNOW DAY!!!...Again!...Question Answered!


     They were right...again! The weather people I mean. They said we'd get some accumulation from this late March snow storm...and we did!
      I have to admit that with their usual less than completely accurate assessment of things...Oooo! such big words like 'assessment' so early in the morning! ^_^...I wasn't at all sure we'd get ANY snow! But so far we have about three inches, and as we speak it's sleeting rain and ice down on top of it! O_O
      So, since it's already gloomy enough, I decided not to share the family issue with you that I spoke of yesterday. Instead I'm gonna answer question number two that I got from a blog follower...YOU know who you are?! LOL

     Here's the question:   Hi Deb here is a question for you and your husband. Did you ever dream of what your future would be and did it turn out like you envisioned?
    Yes, I did dream of what my future would be. Doesn't every little girl?! :-) I dreamed that one day I would meet my 'Mr. Right' and he would sweep me off my feet, and carry me and my stored up red and white silk bed linens, red and white China dishes, and 'John Travolta' poster, off to his mansion in Hawaii! LOL
      It was a dream, People!!! ^_^ But it was a dream I was developing in a real way ever since I was old enough to reach the kitchen stove! LOL...I know, I know! Young ladies these days have different goals set before them. They wanna be career women. Career women who may or may not have a family, fry up the bacon in the pan, have 2.5 kids, and travel the world as a famous person...all at the same time!! ^_^
      My dream was not that lofty...although I did at one time consider being a famous singer or playwright. But all AFTER I became the best wife and mother the world has ever known!! LOL Ha! Funny how things go. Here I am married for over 30 years, and not a child in sight!! (And considering how I see things happening with some moms these days...I'm not mad about it!) Hubby and I decided to go a different, non-child, route.
     

    We opted for crocheting and bird-watching on snowy mornings instead! ^_^

      Hubby says that his dream was to own his own business, or to become a Jet pilot. Uhhhhh....that was an un-materialized dream too!...especially considering that he barely wants to dress himself most days now, and that after 9/11 (when the planes flew into the world trade buildings) he doesn't even wanna go to the airport. Never mind flying anywhere!! LOL In fact, not long ago, if he was outside and heard planes flying overheard he would start sweating!! LOL
     So, yes we dreamed of what our future would be, and it did not turn out as we envisioned...sorta kinda...I say, 'sorta kinda' because I did become the best 'wife' the world has ever known....in 'Jeff World' that is. ^_^ And he does own major stock in his own business...that's now 'our' business...Wuglyees! :-)) Without his piloting our business would be doing a nose-dive! ^_^
       Besides all of that...Uhhhh...dreaminesss...we have been happily married, with our heads in the clouds for quite a while! :-) And neither of us would have it any other way...except for a full time maid....a full time cook...a full time laundry person....a bookkeeper...a chauffeur...and...let me see. What did I leave out?! O_O...Oh Yeah, a mansion in Hawaii!! LOL...At the end of the day, it's not much to ask for, right?! :-] ... Yep! I can dream with the best of 'em!! LOL
       Have a good day, Everybody! See you tomorrow! :-)

When I Lay My Pillow Down

What do I want to accomplish
by the end of the day?
Do I want a sense of peace,
or have my nerves all at a fray?!

I want a calm to have set in.
To have my muscles all relax.
To have brain waves slowing down,
and my awareness at a max.

I want to know that I've done good
when I lay my pillow down.
That I've caused someone to smile,
and feel more happy and unwound.

I want the people that I love,
without strings, to love me back;
And relationships I've formed
to be settled and intact.

When I lay my pillow down,
with my business put to bed,
I don't want to have to worry
that I've cheated or misled.

I want a sense of satisfaction,
and that feeling, "Job Well Done!"
No loose ends that need re-tieing.
No last race I have to run.

What I want to have accomplished
at the end of the day,
is brain cells in the pink,
with no foggy, mental gray!

A happy family, happy me,
a happy God, without a frown;
And I want this every night,
as I lay my pillow down.      

Monday, March 18, 2013

Spring Is About To Fall Backwards Around Here!


       I cannot believe that 9 a.m. caught and passed me again!! Grrrr! I was determined to start today off right. You know, early in the day, early in the week. But nooooooo! Once again here it is almost 10 a.m. and my blog still isn't up yet!!
       But guess who is up?!...Mr. and Mrs. Cardinal. That's who! ^_^ They've been frolicking in the backyard all morning!...Well, they better enjoy it! Things are about to change! O_O We're due to get snow....lots of snow!...starting tonight! It could be as much as six inches!! :-( After finally being able to see the actual lawn in the backyard for a few days too!


      The cardinals are gonna be huddled up...and we are too!! ^_^


      Oh Well...so Spring hasn't totally SPRUNG yet! LOL In fact, you could almost say that Spring is doing a nose-dive into the pool of backwardness!! ^_^ But I'm not gonna be 'mad at it'! In fact, I'm hoping it turns out to be a good thing...for 'ME'! :-]
      "What do you mean?" you ask!...Well, my allergies are ridiculous right now!! I'm sneezing, wheezing, and dripping! My sinuses are taking turns being clear...and then stuffed....the left one...and then the right one...ALL DAY LONG!! UGH! The only time I get some relief is when I'm sleeping with the C-Pap machine on! I think the forced pressure of the air is keeping my sinuses clear...Too bad I can't have it on 24/7!! ^_^
     If I did that though, my throat would be even more sore than it is now...with the constant post nasal drip....{Isn't this a fun conversation we're having? ^_^ Oh, Joy!!}...because I'd have to be screaming at everybody, just to be heard! LOL As it is right now, I kiss hubby goodnight, put my mask on, and say: "Can I have a little more cover?!...."What?" he says. I repeat it umpteen thousand times!!
       He finally says: "okay", and turns over to go to sleep...without me getting any more cover! LOL In the morning he says: "I just got tired of asking you 'What?' and decided I'd find out in the morning." ^_^ ... So here's hoping the big snow brings the "BIG" allergy relief!!

      Between now and the end of the snow storm I'll be doing some more crocheting! I'm trying to keep my fingers limber enough to do all of the boutonniere making I need to do. (I placed a big order yesterday and I need to replace some boutonnieres.)...I'm also gonna put a couple more brooch pins in the shop for the ladies! :-] I don't wanna leave my girls out! :-)

      There's some other family stuff going on too. If I can figure out how to discuss it without being an old bitter angry crab...I'll tell you about it tomorrow...maybe. If I can't figure out how to do that...you'll never hear about it! LOL I try so hard to keep it positive, but sometimes......sometimes!!!!!! Grrrrr! Thankfully hubby lightens the mood for me...or distracts me...so I can deal with it most of the time.
      Until tomorrow! ^_^ Have a good day, Y'all! Not one of 'them' days!! :-)

You Ever Have A Day?

You ever have a day when everything you do goes wrong?
When every hour in the day seems very very long?

You ever have a day when everything you say that's right....
gets misconstrued and turned around and people wanna fight?!

You ever have a day that if you think of it again...
just makes your body quiver and you want the thought to end?

You ever wanna fix things, but you couldn't find a way...
even though you'd said that 'Things will be different today!'?

Well, that was me, and I am thankful that was yesterday!